Ignoring mental health, unhygienic lifestyle and making sexist comments, No no.
Hello men! We need to talk about a few things. Respectfully. Chances are you already know this and but act the way you act because of systemic behaviour or generations of men and peer acting this way. But the world’s changing. It is no longer manly to talk about past trauma, or being a feminist, or respecting everyone equally. So consider these pointers.
First off, let’s start with the hygiene yeah? We get it: your body, your choice. But neglecting basic hygiene is a big no-no. Especially when not showering for days at end is applauded among your peers. So, here's a friendly reminder: take a shower once a day and change your clothes regularly. Seriously, it's time to retire that crusty t-shirt and give it a good wash.
Now, let's talk about something that's just plain wrong: sending unsolicited pictures or videos. It’s downright cringe-worthy. Keep your inappropriate visuals to yourself. If someone's interested, they'll let you know. And not to be rude or anything, receiving unsolicited pics are a big turn off.
Men should stop invalidating their own emotions or those of others. You feel a range of emotions, especially despair and sadness and it’s okay to rip one (cry it out) once in a while And no, it’s not “unmanly” to cry. Just like having a skin routine. It's not about being feminine or masculine. It's about taking care of yourself. Your skin deserves some love too, bro. Yoru partner/ladies will love your soft supple skin.
Also, stop asking women if they are on their cycle when they show emotions. If a woman is upset with you, it's probably because of something you did or said, not because of her menstrual cycle. Don't assume, my dudes. Let’s endthis sexist commentary and you will be 10 times more attractive.
And most importantly, and this can;;t be stressed enough. If your male friends are spewing sexist comments, it's on you to call them out. Don't just sit there and let it slide. Stand up for what's right. Respect and equality matter, and it starts with challenging those harmful comments. Be the hero your female friends need!
Another myth to be debunked. Just because someone (re: woman) is being kind or friendly doesn't mean they’re flirting with you. Laughing at your jokes or asking about your day doesn't equal an invitation to romance. Sometimes kindness is just kindness, nothing more.
Lastly, if you think respecting the women you like make you a “nice guy” while you spew sexist disrespectful comments on everyone else, here’s what you need to learn. You’re not a ‘nice guy’, you are selfish. Thrive to be a better and a nicer person than just a nice guy. Be a nice human.
