According to studies, the connection in smaller groups of friends is far better than that in the larger ones.
Friends are important, and there can be no arguing about that. But have you ever wondered how many friends you need in your life? Of course, the idea of having lots of friends seems amazing. However, in reality, the smaller your circle is, the better! Studies suggest that the connection is significantly better in small groups of close friends (maximum 4-5) than in bigger circles. It's quality over quantity; and trust me, you just don't need a crowd around yourself whom you can't even rely on during critical times.
India celebrates Friendship Day on the first Sunday of August, which falls on August 4 this year. And on this occasion, let's discuss and understand why it's better to keep your circle small.
When it comes to friendship, less is always more! Genuine connections can only take place in a small circle where you know each other properly. There's a space for meaningful conversations where you share your emotions without hesitation and have a constant support system. However, the connections in larger circles are not only superficial but also become overwhelming after a certain point. In such groups, you won't feel comfortable sharing your feelings because there's always a fear of judgment.
There's more intimacy in a smaller group because your friends know you well in that case. They are well aware of your strengths, vulnerabilities, and everything in between. Hence, during critical moments, a smaller circle of genuine friends is more likely to stand by your side as pillars.
You won't get the same kind of support system in a large friend circle. The risk of misunderstanding is more there, and you'll forever remain confused about whom to vouch for.
A large friend circle means there are more ideas, more opinions, and more perspectives. Obviously, these often result in conflicts and misunderstandings, leading you to suffer from constant stress. Also, as relationships require time and attention, you will have to allot a lot of time in maintaining your circle. And this can drain all your energy for sure!
On the other hand, there's always a balance of opinions in a small friend circle. There's less drama and stress, making the friendship a lot more fun. And even if some conflicts arise, these can be solved easily as you all have each other's back.
Friends who help you grow (both in personal and professional life) are important. And that can happen only in a small group because there are fewer distractions. Sharing the same aspirations, they help you navigate the challenges of life and reach your goals. Thanks to the genuine connections, they are not afraid to criticize you openly, letting you realize your setbacks and work accordingly. And they are always ready to offer support whenever you need it. It's a blessing that you can never find in a large circle where there's no genuine connection.
Research (including one conducted at The University of Oxford) suggests that the human brain has a limit in maintaining genuine connections with other people. It's said that one individual can typically have a maximum of five 'close' friends at any given time. So, do focus on keeping your circle small to make the most out of life!
