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The auspicious festival, Bhai Dooj is dedicated to the unconditional love shared between siblings.
Every year, Bhai Dooj is observed on the very last day of the 5-day-long Diwali festivities. ‘Bhai’ means brother and ‘Dooj’ means the second day after the new moon, on which, sisters pray for their brother’s prosperity, health and longevity. In West Bengal, Bhai Dooj is observed as ‘Bhai Phonta’. In Southern part of india, Yama Dwitiya is celebrated, while the state Maharashta observes ‘Bhau Beej’ on this day. However, in the modern era, sometimes it becomes impossible for many siblings to remain physically available during this time of the year, which is surely disheartening. But, the bond between siblings transcends physical proximity. For those who are miles apart, the ‘Bhai Dooj’ celebration can still be heartfelt and memorable with thoughtful gestures. Following are some ways to bridge the gap.
During specific time of the day, the sister applies a red or yellow tilak or mark on brother's forehead, while praying for his well-being. If you are miles apart, connect virtually over WhatsApp video call or zoom during that auspicious time and perform the rituals.
Bhai Dooj is incomplete without the exchange of gifts. With various applications for quick package transfer, nowadays, sending gift across the globe has become an easy job. You just need to do the hardwork of selecting the gift. From customized digital messages to virtual gift cards, the gifting platforms ensures that to keep the emotional connection intact even being physically absent. Nowadays, the online websites are also offering ‘tilak’ delivery also.
Just like sending the gifts, you can order your sibling’s favourite food. Food can bring people closer while making everyone happy. Make sure, the parcel contains all the favourite items of your brother.
In the time of instant messaging, a handwritten letter is always special. The sentimental value of handwritten letters is simply unmatchable. With beautiful decoration, it can immediately convert a simple letter into a meaningful expression of love.
If you are in the same country, a surprise visit is not a bad idea at all. This type of crazy thing needs planning and execution. Try to be as normal as possible during the secretive journey to surprise your brother.
This might feel the simplest thing, but sometimes the easiest thing takes lot of hardwork. Let's be honest, people are extremely busy nowadays. In this haste and hurry, we often forget making heartfelt conversation with our closest ones. Even if you are not able to plan anything, dedicate at least half an hour to one hour for relishing the good old days. Just indulge in deep conversation and allow your heart feel the real happiness. More than anybody, you and your siblings deserve this. Rekindle the siblings bond in this Bhai Dooj. You can also plan virtual entertainment like arranging your favourite TV shows or movies and watch it together over zoom.
These are some of the wonderful things that you can do on this Bhai Dooj. You only need to decide how you wish to celebrate.
