These are not just memories, these are the colours of a Desi family
Ah, siblings – they're the ones who drive us crazy, make us laugh till our sides hurt, and stand by us through thick and thin. Growing up in a desi household, sibling relationships are a unique blend of love, laughter, and occasional chaos.
Let's start with Rakhi fights – a staple in every desi household during the festival of Raksha Bandhan. It's that time of the year when sisters tie rakhis on their brother's wrists, symbolising their love and protection. But what follows is often a series of playful bickering and teasing, as brothers try to wriggle out of promises and sisters demand their share of gifts. Yet, beneath the teasing lies a deep-seated affection and a bond that's stronger than any fight.
Then there are the Maggi fights – those late-night battles over the last packet of instant noodles in the kitchen cabinet. In a desi household, Maggi is more than just a snack – it's a cultural phenomenon, a comfort food that brings siblings together in moments of hunger and nostalgia. So when there's only one packet left, you can bet there'll be some friendly (or not-so-friendly) competition to claim it as their own.
But amidst the chaos and the fights, there's a love that runs deep between Desi siblings. It's the kind of love that's expressed through inside jokes, shared memories, and knowing glances across the dinner table. It's the kind of love that's fiercely protective yet endlessly supportive, even when you drive each other crazy.
And let's not forget the moments of solidarity – those times when desi siblings band together to face the world as a united front. Whether it's defending each other from nosy relatives or teaming up to convince mom and dad to extend curfew, desi siblings know that they've got each other's backs no matter what.
Of course, no discussion of desi sibling relationships would be complete without mentioning the role of food. Food is not just sustenance in a desi household – it's a love language, a way of expressing affection and care. Whether it's cooking up a special meal for a sibling's birthday or sharing a plate of golgappas on a lazy Sunday afternoon, food has a way of bringing desi siblings closer together.
But perhaps the most beautiful thing about desi sibling relationships is their ability to evolve and grow over time. As children, we may have fought over toys and TV remotes, but as adults, we become each other's confidants, advisors, and best friends. We celebrate each other's successes, comfort each other in times of sorrow, and stand by each other through life's ups and downs.
So here's to the chaotic love of desi siblings – to the Rakhi fights, the Maggi fights, and everything in between. May we continue to cherish and celebrate the unique bond that we share, knowing that no matter where life takes us, we'll always have each other to lean on.
